First Week of School 2012

First Week of School 2012
First Week of School 2012

Sunday, April 8, 2012

Happy Easter! & Four hours........

Easter started for us with Friday off for Chris, Katya & Grandma! So we had Grandma around noon, and she supervised our cooking and entertained her grand kids with her new Ipad...

We napped, had a nice dinner, and very moving Good Friday service, at Grace Church of Roseville.

We finished off the night with more cooking in quiet as the kids went to bed quietly after our service.

Sat we had my two brothers over, but unfortunately little Owen was sick throwing up, so Scott came with his 2 girls. We had an egg hunt for them.  And Matt surprised us by coming with his girlfriend, so we had a nice time all together, talking and playing games. First time we have spent 4 hours together in a long time, all of us.  Was moved to tears one time out of the blue missing Dad, but didn't let on.  We've been together for this and that, and even Dad's funeral in December, but we have had things going, or someone else has and it has been shorter visits. It was just a nice visit.

Mom left us as we had Jonathan's end of the year celebration for his hockey team. They all took home trophies, such a wonderful surprise. Wonderful time with friends and parents from the hockey team, and again it was 4 hours. Honestly, I can't remember spending 4 hours in one place with one group and not needing to rush off for a long time. It was just plain fun and relaxing. It was, simply put, a wonderful hockey year.

Today we slept in! WOW! Kids had a little egg hunt with "just enough candy" and a nice little sermon from Dad about the real meaning of Easter. We headed to church almost cheerfully, except for the hurry up make dough for rolls with the mixer that's a bit broken! HE IS RISEN...just can't stop smiling from the celebration at church today. Mostly, it just a blessing to see hearts moved and changed, and for me anytime in our church it's like time stops, and I can rest in Him. I was talking with a young man from Jonathan's team, and it's kind of like golf & fishing too...everything stops, and there are no worries. He loves golfing in the summer. Anyway, when we are there all together as a family, I know at least for that hour+ my children are not getting hurt or hurting anyone, and I can rest in him, and today was just the same, but a reminder of why we even have church....because Jesus rose from the dead. The Messiah did come, and He does live, and that's why we even have that safe place to go each week. I cry most times I go out of relief. We have a good God!

We went to Chris' folks to celebrate Easter. I had told a friend Sat night that it was nice that we were going, because we were "banned" from Christmas. And I really had high hopes for the day, but it didn't go so well. We did have about 3 hours, but it was tense. I did enjoy playing scrabble and 500, and we had a wonderful meal. But it could have been bitter herbs for what filled the atmosphere.  I am not angry, only sad for my husband.

He was accused for saying something completely unlike him, and completely untrue, and shortly later we left quickly as a family while verbal trash was projected our way....

But we redeemed the day with baseball, another nap...and my favorite movie. I hope to put a link up to it. It is actually a children's movie, The Miracle Maker (about Jesus), but I watch it every year as a reminder of His nature and love for us, and to secure the scriptures for our children. It is full of them, in His words.

I'd have to say my favorite part of the day was talking with Sophia about the video clip of the woman at church today who never wanted to go to Church, but how she let God meet her where she was at. Sophia said it was such a relief to hear her talk, because the woman had such a horrible past. It was such a true, honest, meaningful conversation. My other favorite part was watching Jaclyn play with her little cousins rolling down the hill, and making dandelion crowns, and the boys playing baseball up in the field. The cousins knew how to make the most of a day off!

God is Good...He loves us, and there is nothing we can do to earn His love, or push it away, it's the same and more than we can imagine. We just need to let it in and believe it. Love from Alesia & Chris
PS...last year this time, we were putting in new wood, floors and moving. What a relief to actually be resting a bit! We are grateful, but know there is still much to do!

Tuesday, April 3, 2012

Recognition...reproof...repair...and rest!

Jaclyn attended her hockey RECOGNITION tonight at Mahtomedi for maintaining at least a B average or more on her team. She was the only one to show up from her team, even though 6 had made it. I found it interesting that the attendance was very poor, thus the importance on academics. I also found it interesting that they did not recognize any of the high school players, even though some of the coaches were there, so I am assuming that was done at a different time. Lastly, I am surprised at how rude the children were during the different talks from the various speakers. My favorite talk was on how we are slaves to our habits (or sins I would say), and how we need to replace the bad ones with good ones....very encouraging for me!


Jonathan (10) rec'd REPROOF from 2 sources today, not that he didn't deserve it. It appears he sassed one of my friends, and he has boasted unnecessarily to one of his home school mates. Also today, I was called from the High School where he has participated in chess all year and had a wonderful time and can compete equally with many of them. He had "blown his nose" on one of the guys! Well, when I was able to establish what happened, he said that they had been chiding him to wash his hands, which he did, but then vehemently accused him of lying (remember these are 16 year olds from public HS) and the moderator was not around, none of which warrants fighting back however.....so I picked him up and we had a nice talk...so far we have reached "I'm sorry for sassing you mom, and I'm sorry for not keeping my self control" both very sincere...one time Andre hauled off and slashed him in the arm with his hockey stick and it was all he could do not to flatten him, but Jonathan came to me first....one step in the right direction!

I think what bothers me the most, is every can see Jonathan's sins, they are right out there, bugging everyone. Natasha tried to start something with him, instead of respecting him today, about nothing, and he said something back to her...and she tried to blame it all on him.

I bet there are people reading this that are even saying "yeah, Jonathan deserves to get in trouble"....but we have some in our family who are so sneaky with their sin, and lie about it slyly, and can't even properly feel remorse for their unkind sneaky ways, and try to shift blame, but rarely get caught, and on the outside appear so sweet. I can see it all, and I'd rather know what I'm getting and say stop, than wonder all the time...Anyway, we'll have some extra writing tomorrow, I'm sure and a few other measures of discipline in place. God bless our sneaky ones and help them come to repentance as well..

Katya watched the kids tonight, and slammed our front screen door, as have I, as has James & Jonathan (4 of us have that issue that we just don't hide from you!), well, when that door gets slammed, it gets stuck! Our discipline I guess, and then Chris has to REPAIR it! Well, when I came inside the "other unstuck" door tonight from the poorly attended academic award ceremony, I instructed everyone to REPAIR with each other. I have never seen so many people trying to place blame on someone else...all after having watched Little Women Christmas! They should have been happy to help each other! No one respects their older siblings so hope we can find some good teaching materials about older

Well, they all headed to bed at about 8:30pm and we hope they are all getting some much needed REST!

God Bless your week, we'll press on into tomorrow, one day at a time.

Love Alesia & Chris

Monday, April 2, 2012

Miss Potter...

It was a full day...testing in the morning, break outside. Lunch inside and then reading from Beatrix Potter's books (Benjamin Bunny, etc), and then the viewing of her movie, Miss Potter (with captions on for easy comprehension).

What a testimony to "courtship" that movie is! I think love is deeper, and more committed when it isn't tainted by all the things people taint it with today. I especially love all the letter writing. Reminds me of my hope to read this book about John & Abigail Adams (Those Who Love by Irving Stone written in 1965, so hope it's good)..I'll let you know when I'm done with Robin Hood.

We squeezed in a trip to the library, and brought home 60+ books (2 movies, Rin Tin Tin & Little Women Christmas, no StarWars comic books this time, I just said no-can I say the pictures are just too dark!)....kids were anxious to get home, so we didn't stay long. I found the Sarah Plain & Tall books, haven't read them, but thought I heard they were good, if not, hope someone tells me! Usually it's Jaclyn, she tells us right away, which I really appreciate.

We are looking forward to this Easter weekend to spend time with family, and friends. We have gatherings for Easter and Jonathan's end of the year hockey party (celebration for first place!). We are looking forward to Good Friday's service as well as Easter's celebration, hope both bring you a couple heart beats closer to the heart of Jesus....

We didn't get it all done today, so need to work at it harder tomorrow, but all in all it was a good day without too much drama. We covered the testing, literature, Bible, some of us did math, and Jaclyn had her music lesson at home, which I personally love because I can do things, listen and smile all the while! A couple boys probably did too much outdoor time. I do have a hard time balancing it all. We didn't get the laundry folded, but did have supper on the table!

Chris cleared more woods...We can see clearer now, the shrubs are gone! No obstacles in our way (remember that song???) He gets to give a presentation to college students tomorrow! Go Professor Haak!

Love from Alesia & Chris

Sunday, April 1, 2012

Nothing is Everything Part II

When you have days as good as today with nothing, no thing, bad in them, you have to celebrate!

Lots of hugs came my way today. A few lazies..and a few sassies, a few messies falling into the pond, lots of fixits from Chris, fund raising from Katya, and sibling bonding today! Thanks for all your prayers....girls played volleyball together, boys fell in the pond together, Jaclyn read a lot, and of course Jonathan played hockey twice today! And did well.

We are completely grateful for today! A wonderful peaceful day, and wanted you to know that "no bad or evil thing" is EVERYTHING!  : )

Thanks be to Him! Alesia & Chris

December 2011 Haak Family

December 2011 Haak Family
December 2011 Haak Family

Pray for those who persecute you....

Matt 5:11 "Blessed are you when they revile and persecute you, and say all kinds of evil against you falsely for My sake. Rejoice and be exceedingly glad, for great is your reward in heaven...."

Matt 5:44" But I say to you, love your enemies, bless those who curse you, do good to those who hate you, and pray for those who spitefully use you and persecute you, that you may be sons of the Father in heaven; for He makes His sun rise on the evil and on the good, and sends rain on the just and on the unjust.


Psalm 46:1 God is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble. Therefore we will not fear.....

Phil 4:5-9 Let your gentleness be known to all men. The Lord is at hand. Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication, with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God; and the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus. Finally, brethren, whatever things are true, whatever things are noble, whatever things are just, whatever things are pure, whatever things are lovely, whatever things are of good report, if there is any virtue and if there is anything praiseworthy - meditate on these things.


2nd Timothy 1:7 For God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power and of love and of a sound mind.

We adopted 4 older siblings from Ukraine in 2010 and hope we can help.

We will share what we learn and help you when we can. There are great supports here on this page. Sometimes it's one day, moment and breath at a time. And you're not alone. Love, Alesia & Chris