First Week of School 2012

First Week of School 2012
First Week of School 2012

Sunday, October 23, 2011

Dad fell...

He's ok, but had a gash on his head....

He didn't want me to know...not to worry...

They had a nice time with family visits though, and I appreciate your prayers.

We have a full week and I plan to go up on Friday. All is well here. Chris' Mom, continues to improve at home.

Love from Alesia & Chris 

Saturday, October 22, 2011

A couple other BIG little things....

Thank you for your prayers....Chris' Mom is home! My Dad and Mom had company this weekend, and he has been feeling chipper and sweet with Mom.

Jonathan just had a wonderful opportunity in hockey, that we are really grateful for. He has just been at the right place at the right time and will get a hard work out this year with the right coaching staff. We are so grateful for this opportunity. And it almost moved me to tears to sense that some of the coaches were just as happy to have him, as he was excited to be on their team. It won't be an easy year, but it will be a good, growing, year for Jonathan and hockey.

That was one BIG thing....

The other little thing that was "big" was, our Andre pulled another crazy yesterday..he took one of his skates and broke our tail light on our big van when he was returning them to his bag. He wasn't mad or upset or anything..he just did it for curiosity sake?????? Chris and I just shake our heads sometime. We still haven't come up with the right discipline. BUT next time there is any damage done with any of his hockey stuff, he's skipping the next practice (that's the only thing that goes right to his heart). We just don't get it? He knew he did something wrong, but we still don't understand the why behind it???

We just have to learn how to handle these strange little (BIG) things so we don't "lose" it and move in the right direction. Part of it is, we just don't understand it, so we get impatient...

Anyway...we'll be celebrating Jonathan's hockey achievements for awhile and being happy for him, and getting ready for winter here. Chris washed and waxed our car today, bought us some nice chairs for our dining room, and is just keeping us going in the right directions. I'm hoping to visit my parents next weekend. Tonight, all is peaceful and good around here! Thank-you Lord!!!

Thanks for all your prayers! Alesia & Chris

Friday, October 21, 2011

The BIG little things....

First, thank you for all your prayers..sounds like Chris' Mom will come home Sat, and my Dad and Mom are having some good times, peace and relief together, if that makes any sense.

Here's a few BIG little things that just leave me standing with my mouth open (usually yelling!)....

1) A few days ago, Andre got hit in the head with a basket ball (just an accident as it came down through the hoop)....he cried..it hurt...THEN...."It's all Sophia's fault because she won't pass....", no it's not, you're just mad because you got hurt...etc on and on for 10 minutes...then "I'm sorry for blaming Sophia"....

2) Today Natasha had on pants that were too long for her...I asked her to change them..."It's Sophia's fault..she gave them to me..." etc..anger yelling, yelling at me because I asked her and Andre not to do some thing but I didn't ask Sophia..etc..you get the idea....then "I'm sorry".....

3) Today..Natasha said "Now I don't have anything to wear because they're in the dirty laundry"...and then later tried to sneak them out of the laundry, and then got mad at me when I said that wasn't going to fly....then "I'm sorry"

4) Today...Andre took his torn old laces out of his hockey skates, and we put new ones in...they were a little long so we tied a couple knots in them so he wouldn't trip. We got home..."Mom...I am going to need new laces again because these are almost thread bare!".....wow..how can that happen so fast???? So...I said, tell me the truth or you can skip hockey tonight. 30 Seconds later..."I cut them"..how? "With my skate blade".....why?  "I didn't like the knots. Well can you guess what Andre is doing now...lacing up his skates with laces he had to find from his sister, after telling them of his foolishness.

5) Today...Jonathan can't get a handle on his mouth..we almost left him at outside playing baseball..but we didn't...he is quick to admit things, doesn't lie about them or sneak..but he can really be in our faces too.

And I'm blogging, because I need to do something other than scream!!! And some days I really think some of my kids try to paint a picture that I'm the "mad" mom, and I'm the problem.

I was thinking today about their experience in the orphanage...they all went from activity to activitiy. Their major issues were fighting over a toy, not eating food they didn't like, and things we don't dare talk about on blogs...if they can manage to go from one activity to another activity without getting into trouble (either they don't do it..or they sneak it and don't get caught)...then all is well.

Now they have a mom who cares about the truth, the heart, self responsible actions, and when I confront them they throw horrible fits, to try to get me mad, so they can tell everyone how angry I am.

Some days all I can say is WOW...and hope this moment moves on and gets better....

Sorry to vent...we're a little out of sorts from our trip, hockey starting up, and just getting back in the groove. Hope to turn the ship around this weekend....

Enjoy the sun! Alesia & Chris 

Monday, October 17, 2011

Vacation...friends...and no keys????

Keep praying for Chris' mom and my dad. He has had some dehydration issues and we're hoping that Chris mom moves into transitional care today for her hip therapy.

Our family is doing well today. We're on vacation with 6 of the kids in IN.

We had a wonderful time with friends of Chris' from Purdue yesterday. They fed our whole family with chili, corn bread, cake, veggies..everything! Kids played outside, Chance ran around with Charlie..it was a perfect day.

Today Chris is working all day and we think he took the keys with him, but left us the car. I think my purse is in the car, and the dog kennel. So I think we'll have a swimming, game day here at the hotel. We stayed up too late last night and kind of messed Chris up for work sleep, so early to bed tonight as well.

We watching a lot of funny romance movies...and laughing a lot, so that has been good! The hotel provides breakfast and dinner so that's great as well!

We look forward to hockey starting up Wed when we get back. Love from Alesia & Chris

Monday, October 10, 2011

Update...........

Chris' mom had hip surgery last Monday and came through well, however, had signs of heart stress or heart attack so they moved her to St. Mary's where they can monitor her heart better. She had an angiogram today, but we have not heard of how everything went.

My dad lost all his energy, and hair, of which I think the latter was more frustrating. I did talk to him today and he sounded like he is taking a turn for more energy since his chemo last Tuesday. I hadn't talked to him, because honestly I wasn't much company myself. It was good to hear his voice today.

Chris is taking Jonathan to football, making sure he has shoes to keep up with his growing feet, and doing all the handy man stuff: gutters, hockey shooting space, getting us raking, securing the camper, varnishing my bookshelves, and all the while being a good Dad & husband.

I am trying to teach the kids, but some days the kids are "trying" me! I'm enjoying the GPS, Bible, Outliers, and the Boy Who Came Back from Heaven, as well as Sunday mornings, and a few choice words from some friends to help me "find my way"!

Katya is working hard at school, is looking forward to driving lessons, she's a great help around the house, and is generally a really good big sister. She made some beautiful cards from a kit her grandma gave her a while back and gave one to me. She likes every minute we can spend together alone which is a rare occurance.

Jaclyn is cruising through her subject matter...but could pick up the pace on Algebra & Biology. She practiced her piano like an "outlier" today after reading the Outlier book in one afternoon. She's looking forward to hockey starting. She was reading Garfield and Stink to her brothers today and I heard a lot of laughing!

Sophia is having fun with soccer. She is not the quickest learner, but she is trying harder this year not to interrupt and give others a chance. She did read a pretty hard book for her, Carry On Mr. Bowditch, which we'll read again outloud, to secure her comprehension. I think she is more interested in keeping her hair beautiful. She is good helper as well around the home.

Natasha has been having a harder time this year. She is learning a lot, and doing her work faithfully, but she tries to get others in trouble, she lies, and thank God, she now confesses it later, she disrupts when someone else is getting instruction. She is very athletic and loves playing soccer as well. She likes to run and run and run, and she likes to do figure skating. She is under "strict" supervision most days, and we hope she will turn the corner soon in homeschool. Her reading is getting better. And it's encouraging to have her start telling the truth.

Jonathan had a disappointment with hockey this year in being selected for the C team. Many of us thought the B a more appropriate place. He's really motivated to get better this year to not let this happen again. Today he did sports for about 6 hours (hockey, phy-ed, football), as well as his math, writing and reading. He has read through 3 smaller science text books this fall already and awaits time with his Dad discussing it . After he finishes his math, we plan to move onto Algebra, so he's doing well for 5th grade. He's a little too competitive and needs to work on his self control when playing sport with girl siblings who drive him crazy! His favorite books this fall are, Heaven is for Real, The Boy Who Came Back from Heaven, 90 minutes in Heaven, and Outliers, and all his hockey, baseball and football books he picks up from the library.

Andre, does what is asked academically, and not much more. He is a quick learner in math, can copy well, but has a hard time with phonics, reading and spelling. He is very handy. He does not stop until he goes to bed, but I have been able to get him to sit quietly with a book for an hour. And he made a mobile today on his own. He is really good at hockey for his age.

James is picking up on reading, progressing in math, but still doesn't like to apply himself to reading. If he just tried, he'd get it, but wants us to point to each word and letter. All the while he can add fractions in his head without ever studying them. He loves football, and welcomes hockey when it comes. He loves to have his sisters read to him.

All the kids are doing well. We keep a pretty rigid schedule. We welcome any helpers who may come our way who would like to spend time with 2 or 3 at a time!

Keep Chris' Mom in your prayers, and my Dad. We are doing well, and I'm hoping for bed by 10 tonight!

Alesia & Chris

Monday, October 3, 2011

Most Importantly.........

Chris' mom had hip replacement surgery today and we haven't heard from anyone on this yet...

My dad has more chemo tomorrow and last time it didn't go so well....

Prayers are appreciated for our parents over the next week...

Thanks for all your prayers and support, some days we're looking for that silver lining....

I did run into an "angel" of a lady today who listened to me for a bit and encouraged me in the Lord. We have had some hockey questions of late, and have received some excellent encouragement and advice as well.

We appreciate your prayers! Alesia & Chris

December 2011 Haak Family

December 2011 Haak Family
December 2011 Haak Family

Pray for those who persecute you....

Matt 5:11 "Blessed are you when they revile and persecute you, and say all kinds of evil against you falsely for My sake. Rejoice and be exceedingly glad, for great is your reward in heaven...."

Matt 5:44" But I say to you, love your enemies, bless those who curse you, do good to those who hate you, and pray for those who spitefully use you and persecute you, that you may be sons of the Father in heaven; for He makes His sun rise on the evil and on the good, and sends rain on the just and on the unjust.


Psalm 46:1 God is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble. Therefore we will not fear.....

Phil 4:5-9 Let your gentleness be known to all men. The Lord is at hand. Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication, with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God; and the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus. Finally, brethren, whatever things are true, whatever things are noble, whatever things are just, whatever things are pure, whatever things are lovely, whatever things are of good report, if there is any virtue and if there is anything praiseworthy - meditate on these things.


2nd Timothy 1:7 For God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power and of love and of a sound mind.

We adopted 4 older siblings from Ukraine in 2010 and hope we can help.

We will share what we learn and help you when we can. There are great supports here on this page. Sometimes it's one day, moment and breath at a time. And you're not alone. Love, Alesia & Chris